How to Live Free + Overcome People Pleasing with Byron Katie | EP 45

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  • Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024

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  • @SMinerva22
    @SMinerva22 2 месяца назад +12

    You are both so wise and beautiful.
    This really got me thinking, what does it even mean to "like" someone? We want them to approve of us? Provide validation that we are "good" or "right"? Ultimately, I believe this stems from a lack of parental validation. Once i was able to identify and grieve the approval and validation I never received from my parents, I was finally able to heal my own need to be "perfect" for others. I finally learned that another's emotional experience has nothing to do with me and is not my responsibility to manage or fix. The freedom I feel now is profound. Thank you both.

    • @SaralinaLove
      @SaralinaLove 2 месяца назад +1

      Beautiful ❤🎉❤❤❤❤

  • @the1972bulldog
    @the1972bulldog 2 месяца назад +3

    1,111 views 11 hours ago and its exatly 11am Thursday here in Australia.
    Thank You both so Much for a Beautiful Show
    🙏🏻💙✌️🌟🧡🖖🤍

  • @patriciayorklive
    @patriciayorklive 2 месяца назад +1

    Hi Katie! It's me - Patricia from Salt Lake City. I just want to say that I have loved doing the work all these years,
    But beyond that - to read your books, especially a
    A Thousand Na 35:01 mes for Joy and a Mind at Home with Itself puts me in the awakened state.
    I use the audio versions as meditation. I immediately know who I AM . ❤

  • @howismichellesochill
    @howismichellesochill 2 месяца назад

    5:33 I totally feel that. With the work no matter what situation I find myself I know I can do the work and I will see the light at the end of the tunnel.

  • @CJMilli
    @CJMilli 2 месяца назад +5

    I’m reading A Thousand Names for Joy & it’s life changing x liberating! I was so excited to see this chat between you two 🩷

  • @behnooshazizi926
    @behnooshazizi926 2 месяца назад +2

    Amazing , I love love love Byron Katie , thank you Alyssa ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sanelaimamovic2621
    @sanelaimamovic2621 2 месяца назад +10

    Adore Katie 😊 she helped me in my search for real me. My first "mentor" and she don't know it😅

  • @MariaJMcMahon
    @MariaJMcMahon 2 месяца назад +12

    The self cannot be found in books. You have to find it for yourself, by yourself.’

    • @JessicaLark
      @JessicaLark 2 месяца назад +2

      Everything is the self. You find yourself in all of it.

    • @MariaJMcMahon
      @MariaJMcMahon 2 месяца назад +2

      @@JessicaLark You miss the point. You go inside to find the self as opposed to searching for it outside of your self. Everything is not the self. The self is connected to everything.

    • @SaralinaLove
      @SaralinaLove 2 месяца назад

      ​@@MariaJMcMahon❤❤❤❤ yes!

    • @claresmith9261
      @claresmith9261 2 месяца назад

      ⁠@@MariaJMcMahonEverything is the self , outside and in because everything we perceive is within our world

    • @MariaJMcMahon
      @MariaJMcMahon 2 месяца назад

      @@claresmith9261 You're overcomplicating and missing the simple point I'm making, which is that we're constantly being encouraged to read this book or that, or to listen ti the wisdom of this person or that person, when in truth we all have our own inner teacher and guide. We need to go within to find our own inner teacher.

  • @maghraouihicham7568
    @maghraouihicham7568 2 месяца назад

    Thank you very much for both of you.... getting connected to our authenticity and spontaneity requires us to work deep inside ourselves and question our beliefs and ideas that we have acquired throughout our life unconsciously through our family and society.

  • @krystenann
    @krystenann 2 месяца назад +1

    I would love to see Martha Beck on your show 🧡🧡 I know it would be such a beautiful conversation between the two of you

  • @mitramalekzadeh9988
    @mitramalekzadeh9988 2 месяца назад +1

    It's about time. Hi Byron 👋 I'm a fan

  • @user-jf7hh3hd5j
    @user-jf7hh3hd5j 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for your podcast. It has inspired me!

  • @mindeerosen644
    @mindeerosen644 2 месяца назад

    So beautiful to witness! Very powerful !! ❤

  • @stacieivey7104
    @stacieivey7104 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for your podcast. ❤

  • @helenee.5462
    @helenee.5462 2 месяца назад +2

    ❤ Wow, so real and powerful.

  • @stacieivey7104
    @stacieivey7104 2 месяца назад

    Byron Katie is wonderful. ❤You should have Sara Landon on your podcast too.

  • @Andrew-dg7qm
    @Andrew-dg7qm 2 месяца назад

    Hi Katie, I love reality!

  • @staciejean
    @staciejean 2 месяца назад

    Loved this episode! When I went to download The Work app for my Android it said that the app" isn't available for my device because it was made for an older version" Please update🙏❤

  • @SMinerva22
    @SMinerva22 2 месяца назад +8

    As a side note, it rubs me the wrong way how much this woman cuts you off...I sense that you clearly look up to and respect her, but that does not mean that you deserve to be cut off everytime you open your mouth to say something...there is a way to address this respectfully as well. No matter how much we look "up" to someone, our inner workings and perspectives still deserve to be fully heard and allowed. ❤

    • @waiataaroha
      @waiataaroha Месяц назад +2

      relax ..... Byron katie is brought to talk not to listen and we came to listen to her not to the host. Hosts need to listen more and talk less .....

  • @peaceTraveler-mn3pr
    @peaceTraveler-mn3pr 2 месяца назад +1

    Of course, maybe it was just me and as interview went on it was so much more fluid
    Thank you for your comments

  • @anitoroyan272
    @anitoroyan272 15 дней назад

    How to relax when Lebanon is getting attacked?

  • @jan141965
    @jan141965 2 месяца назад

    It comes back to what your then boyfriend did work on: “Do I need them to like, love me?”

  • @peaceTraveler-mn3pr
    @peaceTraveler-mn3pr 2 месяца назад +13

    Byron is amazing - I wish the host However, gracious talked much less and let this master share her wisdom and let the conversation flow more. There was too much of an agenda. I’ve seen that with over and over again with host that part was disappointing for me. I have to say.

    • @refreshingtwist
      @refreshingtwist 2 месяца назад +6

      I completely disagree. This is a beautiful conversation! Both voices are valid! ❤

    • @margienegri1210
      @margienegri1210 2 месяца назад +7

      I too completely disagree. I really appreciated both of the inputs. Beautiful video all around.

    • @yoonan9756
      @yoonan9756 4 дня назад +1

      "The host talked too much that it was disappointing for me" - Is that true? Can you really absolutely be sure that is true?

  • @kimberleyganschow8663
    @kimberleyganschow8663 2 месяца назад +1

    You had this amazing guest on, and you hardly gave her the space to talk?